Monday, December 29, 2008

The First Date

They say there is a first time for everything. A date also falls into this. I would like to clear up my situation
first . I am a small town boy coming from a school in which we regarded sitting beside a girl in one bench
in class to the ultimate punishment. and every girl in the class was determind to tie each boy rakhi so
that they cannot take further interest in her (as well as to get free gifts). Hence when after moving to bhilai
from there it took me almost a year to be able to be good friends with girls.

1. select a girl of interest
There always was this girl in my friend circle i wanted to date. we were hanging out ( in grp) all
the time. Then i thought its high time for me to get into a relationship.
2. How to ask????
For being a first timer i seeked advice from my friends who gave me ,...well good suggestions.
To be frank..they scared the hell out of me. some said be yourself dude nd all's gonna be well.
some said red roses ..some said chocs,ice-creams.///// .';];];'/'.'.[];]$%$%^^..
The rest said she will hit you with a sandal....scratch ur face with her fingernails....a black eye..or both..

After considering all this i finally asked her out in a reasonable way (can't disclose) and to my surprise
she agreed.
3. DAMn costly affair.
I had to lend a bike, wear a new shirt and still it cost me the pocket money for half the month.

I took her to a good restaurant ..she ate little ordered more.====waste of money.
she asked me several questions about my self===== an interview with a vampire girl.
she chatted relentlessly still i was just gazing at her==== advantages of a beautiful face.

They after having the meal. we went away towards a hangout place which happens to be a shopping
complex. =====money$$$$$$$$.
she ate ice creams ,chocs , bought a scarf and tried buying gift for me from my own money.

I don't Know why we date, it can't be LOVE..its a mear attachment, a likeness ..an attraction.

After all this finally romance crept in our date after a long while in most unlikely fashion.
We were sitting on a bench facing a park,just looking at people moving..kids jumping around..trees
swinging in rhythm..we did nothing much but just talked, ate jalebi from a thela and nothing more.

ANDDDDD time flew for us.

Then finally i dropped her in her home( actually near the street where her home was) and went back
smiling...

ALLS WELL THAT ENDS WELL>>

ps: still if u dont have money u can't have honey.